How to Increase Passion in Bed

bellamikelargerFocus on your Partner
There are a few things that you might want to consider before following these steps. Women are usually physically and mentally focused during sex. Men are physically present, but not mentally. It could be that men are thinking about work, the football game, another woman, etc. Whatever it is, don’t get distracted.

Give your partner your body and soul. Your partner obviously needs your presence and doesn’t want you to just lie beside them in bed.

Don’t Blame the Time
One’s partner always knows what is really missing in the relation. When you find yourself lacking time but still want to win brownie points for the effort, you should think more about quality than quantity. You will reap the benefits in every way when you have a cheerful and satisfied partner. And for a cheerful partner-to-be, you need to put in a little effort and cajoling.

Naughty Sex Games for Couples to Feel Horny Again!

The next time both of you are in bed, wondering how to deal with the elephant in the room *when sex starts to get boring*, stop worrying about it. Just play a few games, and watch your libidos soar through the roof.

Here are 10 sex games for couples that could help you in the right direction. Once you use these, just improvise on the tips and make your own games with them. Try a few, and you’ll see just how horny your lover will feel within the next few minutes!

#1 Fantasy bowl. Write down five dark, secret fantasies of yours in five individual pieces of paper. Fold them up and drop them in a bowl. Ask your partner to do the same. Shuffle the chits of paper and pick one, and talk about that fantasy together. You don’t need to focus on having sex at all!

Just turn off the lights, get under the sheets and discuss why you or your partner likes that sexual fantasy and what stimulates each other about it. If your partner describes their fantasy to you, just listen to them and run your hands along their body as they describe the fantasy. Before you even realize it, both of you will be really turned on. Just remember, the darker the sexual fantasies, the more aroused both of you will feel.

#2 Role playing. Role playing is always fun, irrespective of the characters both of you choose. The guy could pretend to be the doctor, and the girl could pretend to be a patient who’s come to the doctor’s office. Ask your partner to lie down on the bed *fully clothed* and pretend like you’re examining them. Look for excuses to touch the patient, and undress the patient giving different excuses.

You could also use blindfolds to make the experience feel more real. Use characters that work for you and arouse each other, if you want the experience to be fun.

#3 Dirty would-you-rather questions. Lie down in bed with each other on a lazy afternoon or at night, and ask each other a few dirty questions. It could start off feeling awkward, but it’ll only take a question or two to light up both your eyes with lust.

And even if you’re not thinking of sex, ask each other the right questions and both of you would be making love within the next fifteen minutes!

#4 Strip questions. This is just like strip poker, but with a little twist. Instead of playing this game with cards, ask each other personal questions. If you ask your partner a question and they get it wrong, they need to down a shot of alcohol, and take off one piece of clothing.
If you want to make it more fun and sexy, wear old clothes while playing the game. And instead of taking one piece of clothing off, each time a partner gives a wrong answer, the other partner tears a piece of clothing off their body!

#5 Horny truth or dare. Both of you can play this game with each other. All you need to do is ask each other to perform a dare or tell the truth. Use a bottle and spin it on the floor, and person the bottle points to has to perform the dare.

But quite frankly, it’s so much sexier and hornier if you’ve got another couple to play this game with or hire an escort who is experienced to steam up the game from If you have another couple as friends, ask them to come over for a night, or try this on a vacation. But we assure you, play this game once and you’ll be on a horny high for several months!

Sexual Fantasies and Dirty Fantasies in Bed

Dirty talking in bed and bedroom fantasies can be a great sexual boost in every relationship if done the right way. Find out more about sexual fantasies in bed and how you can indulge in it without crossing the red line.

Click here to read the introduction on how to talk dirty in bed and find out everything about sexual fantasies and examples of talking dirty in bed.
sexual fantasies and dirty fantasies

We’ve seen that bedroom fantasies and dirty talk in bed can be a huge turn on, and can also improve your sex life by miles in the introduction feature.

But after seeing how dirty talking in bed can actually lead to mistrust if not kept in check, you may want to know if bedroom fantasies are a boon or a bane to couples in love.

Can bedroom fantasies and sexual fantasies go bad?

Firstly, even before we talk about when it can go bad, we have to realise that anything in moderation is great and can be a huge turn on.

But too much of any good thing usually leads to bad results.

[Read: Top 10 sexual male fantasies and top 10 female sexual fantasies]

So bedroom fantasies and sexual fantasies in bed are definitely not bad. It’s actually a nice way to explore your inner sexual desires and the desires of your partner’s. But at the same time, it is a risky business.

Playing safe with bedroom fantasies

If your wife’s hot single friend turns you on, or your husband’s eligible bachelor pal makes you weak in your knees, you better be careful about talking about that same person while having sex all the time. [Read: How to start fantasizing about someone else with your partner]

It can rouse unnecessary suspicions and make things uncomfortable. But that’s not really the bad part of bedroom fantasies. Here’s the really bad part.
If you have a crush on your partner’s friend or your own friend from the workplace, and you talk about having sex with this person every time you’re having sex with your partner, you really need to ask yourself whether you’re overdoing it? You may be so obsessed with having sex with someone else that you may end up really lusting for this person in reality, or worse, you may not get sexually excited about your own partner unless you talk about this special sexy friend.

At times, overindulgence in fantasies can actually distance you from your partner. You may have sex a lot more, what with both of you mentally having sex with a different person each time you have sex. But every now and then, you should involve yourselves too, to have a great time in bed by just talking about each other more often.

And think about it, if your sexual fantasies involve having sex with your girlfriend’s sister or best friend, or your boyfriend’s hot friend or co-worker, there is every possibility of your partner feeling insecure or doubting your fidelity now and then.